I remember shortly after my oldest daughter turned 6 months old, I began looking for a job to help make ends meet at home. My husband was working overtime hours and as soon as he would clock-out, we would head to the neighboring town and work at the church until late into the night, so I decided it was time to contribute. That was when the opinions came in. That was when the pastor told us his views. A woman’s place is in the home . Referencing Proverbs 31, the pastor of our church at the time made his opinion of me working outside the home very clear. In his mind, I was sinning. And, actually, this is a very common view within the general Church today. The man needs to be the bread-winner, the spiritual leader, the head of the household. That is how I had always grown up. Several years after struggling with needing to find a job, I was in a similar situation. Only this time Jason was the associate pastor at another church, and due to his secular job